| Saturday, August 22, 2009 |
| Death Anniversary |
Today I'm celebrating my đám giỗ of my uncle and grandmother from my dad side.R.i.p.
It brings up good memories when they were around. My uncle was a good man. He helped a lot people and was always friendly. Any person he met they were instantly friends with him.I was lucky enough to see him before he passed. I remember the hug he gave me when I came home from Vancouver.B.C. He was laying in the hospital very sick. Later i found out he had throat cancer. A couple passed by and it horrifying to hear the news from the hospital that my uncle was going to die within 48 hours.
Everyone rushed to see my uncle. My dad stayed by his side... he didn't get off the chair.. Feeding him and did everything for my uncle. The day he died many people came into the hospital to see him before he passed.But, I could think about is that these people did not even visit him when he was sick. But shows up when he's about to die.What gave them the right to? It was so sad just knowing that he was about to die in front of my eyes. But, What truly pissed me off was 2 of my aunts wanting to pull the plug on him. I was what the hell. It wasn't enough that he knew he was dying they wanted it to be faster?? My dad opposed and my other uncle.
What would give them the right to pull the plug? There not even blood. There married into the family. All those years they talked trash on my uncle what would give them the right? But...
the finally result was that we didn't pull the plug. We choose morphine so it would be easier for him. He slowly passed away, but many times he would wake up and act normally, even the doctor assessed that he would live a couple more days.. but after they said that... only an hr passed and the unimaginable happened. My uncle passed away.
My grandmother, is another story. I didn't get to see her before she passed in Vietnam. I loved her so much <3> |
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